Hmong-American Author Explores ‘The Bride Cost’ In Memoir

Whenever Mai Neng Moua had been growing up as a Hmong-American residing in Minnesota, she decided she did not would you like to follow a longstanding wedding customized if she had been to marry A hmong guy.

Inside her 20s, Moua used through on that choice. In preparing her wedding to A hmong guy, she insisted she did not want her husband-to-be’s household to pay for a “bride cost.”

” when you look at the community that is hmong just like some other communities, the bride pricing is cash you pay the bride’s parents for marrying her,” the author explained. She included that the “going price” for the bride pricing is anywhere from $5,500 to $20,000. Moua said it is distinct from the dowry just because a dowry includes all of the gift ideas and materials that family relations provide the bride to begin her life.

Moua shared her tale of rejecting this customized in a memoir released final month, “The Bride cost: A Hmong Wedding Story.”

“we actually struggled with (the bride cost) because growing up I’d heard all those tales, my mother’s stories, in regards to the effect of this bride cost on the and also as a young woman,” she stated. “Growing up I felt like this had not been the fact for me personally.”

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